Hiding the Ugly

This week I have spent a lot of time staring at a crucifix on the wall of my hospital room.  The cross itself is simple wood, it appears; the Jesus is a bronzy-gold contemporary statue.

He wears a robe, his hands stretched toward Heaven, His face turned to the side and down.  His head bears a crown of thorns.  The robe covering his legs narrows to a sharp point at slightly raised knees and ends with feet.

This crucifix has mocked me this week.  I am not drawn to its  modern sharp edges.  It’s so clean, so much a piece of art.

Furthermore, it seems to be telling me I want to present as cleaned up a life to the world as this crucifix does.  Neither images are true.

The crucifixion was a bloody business.  It was cruel.  It was barbaric.  You can’t clean that up and be real.

Earlier this week I admitted I briefly thought suicide was my only option out of my messy painful life.  They were fleeting thoughts rooted in fear and denial.  They were dismissed as quickly as they came.  Nonetheless they were there.

There’s no cleaning this up folks.  But it makes me question how honest we are behind our Sunday morning smiles.  How different would out relationships be if a brother fighting a battle against pornography acknowledged that?  Or a sister admitted she and her kids had a screaming match every morning no matter what she tried.

What happens when these same people cross the church door threshold?  For a few hours are they cleaned up?  No.  Like me they know how to hide the ugly.  So let me try again:

“Hello, my name is Faye.  I am s believer with a messy, painful life but I cling to Jesus and keep trying. Who are you?”

2 thoughts on “Hiding the Ugly

  1. My name is Kaye. I am a strong on the outside (when things are going good) but weak on the inside. Hoping that when push comes to shove I can get the job done. I struggle everyday to get where I need to be – rushing all the time. Never having time for myself but not wanting to be lonely.


    • First, thanks for reading my blogging atttempt Kaye. Second, I am right there with you. Living a Christian life in today’s world is never easy, but Jesus never promised it would be. I have learned, although it does seem to be a lesson God has to repeat with me a lot, that rushing and pushing instead of seeking and praying is always a receipe for diaster. I encourage you my Sister in Christ to slow down and seek. The worst lonely in the world is being lonely surrounded by people. Let Jesus keep you company. I pray for you that you find your time to slow down. – Faye


Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s